So I'm going to update about my life. 4 years ago I decided to go to a school where nobody from my high school class was going to. It has been an up and down four years. I have gained and lost friends. I have found some of my best friends. I have professors I know I will keep in contact with. I have professors that I won't. I also found who I think may eventually will be my future husband. Yes I just said that.
A year and 5 months ago I met this guy. His eyes were the first thing that captured me. I was like he's cute and I had a crush on him. Then I knew and could tell he had a crush on my friend. I can always tell when guys have crushes on my friends but not on me go figure. So I stopped liking him, but not really. There was just a little crush there always and i tried not to let people see it.My friend had been suggesting I ask him out and I was like no if God wants it to happen it will.
Then 2 weeks before my birthday last year I went home. I was complaining to God all weekend about me being almost 22 with no boyfriend ever. I was like ok God give me a sign or something. The next week I went into where this guy works and I got those feelings again after not seeing him over the summer. It was really busy so I td him I would come see him Saturday night.
Saturday night I go to the movies. Then I go to his work. He is working and has the AL vs FL game on. He gets on to me because the movie I went to go see see he wanted to go see as well. I was like I don't have your number so I program my phone number into his phone.
Then our friend walks in with her parents and they had just seen Courageous. After they had left he asked me if I wanted to go. Me being stupid was like yeah it is next on my movie list. He then asked me to go with him the next day sure thinking it was a friend thing. We decided 3:30.
The next day 2:00 comes around and he calls me and the 3:30 showing is already sold out. The next times were 7 and 7:50. I said either one. He then told well you do want to go to dinner now I was like sure. Me being stupid again thinking friends thing again. So I text our friend and was like so I'm going to the movies with M. She was like yeah you are going on a date. Then I start freaking out. Haha. What to wear!? Etc.
He pulls out all the stops on our date. Opens the doors, prays over our meal, buys the food and movies. We had a great time.
He invited me to come over to his apartment to hang out the next day and we talked and talked. He likes me he really likes me. Haha. We both liked where this was going so he said he wanted to ask my dad permission to date me. Which I almost cried because I wrote down that whoever dates me has to ask my dad.
My family was coming that weekend because it was the weekend for my birthday. Side note I was sick on my birthday so M came to campus and to give me my present. It was so sweet.
So my family met him. Every time he tried to ask my dad something went wrong, but at the end of the day we both knew he approved. He also got to meet my best guy friend that weekend which is pretty major because he is like my big bro.
I then met his family a month later. They made me feel at home with them.
We have been officially together on Oct. 11th. So almost 4 months. We have had a lot of ups and downs along the road. But what relationship does not have that.
I love him and he loves me. And I never really thought I would be in love and I'm so thankful that I am.
So that's an big update on my life. :)